How Women Fall in Love (and the 3 Types of Women You’ll Date)

Today, I’m talking about how women fall in love and what actually happens when women fall in love. This way, you can have a better understanding of what’s going on with her, so you can navigate dating her a lot better.

The Three Types of Women You’ll Date

First of all, let’s talk about the three types of women that you’ll date.

1. The woman who loses interest in you.
   She meets you, hangs out with you for a bit, and realizes she doesn’t really like you. She’ll just fizzle out of your life. Basically, she didn’t like you that much, and therefore, she’s gone.

The other two types are-

2. The woman who is head over heels for you straight away.
3. The woman who is on the fence about you.
   She could be swayed either way into liking you or not liking you. So, your game has to be pretty tight with a woman who’s on the fence about you.

If you want to learn how to really be a master at turning women who are on the fence about you into women that are head over heels for you, I highly recommend that you go and read my book, Attracting the Beautiful Woman of Your Dreams. You can read it completely for free on my website. Just go to www.christineloveish.com, go to the menu on the website, and click on the book. It’ll take you straight there. You don’t need to log in, sign up, or anything—you just need to go to the website and read the book.

If you want, you can buy a physical copy or get the Kindle version, but it’s not necessary because everything in the book is on the website. You can just coach yourself. I’ve got all the information online—I’m not hiding anything or withholding information. All the information you need is there, and it’s an easy read. You could easily breeze through it in an afternoon; it’s under 100 pages long. I do recommend reading it multiple times so it can stick in your brain.

Focusing on Women on the Fence

We’re mostly going to be talking about how to turn the women that are on the fence about you into women that are head over heels for you. With women who are head over heels for you already, you don’t have to do much to make them like you more because they already really like you.

I personally suggest that you only stick to dating those kinds of women who are head over heels for you straight away, just because of how easy and effortless life becomes if you do that. But I understand that there are some guys out there who may really get stuck on a woman who’s on the fence about them. It is possible to turn a woman who’s on the fence about you into a woman who’s head over heels in love with you—but like I said, your game has to be pretty tight.

You don’t really need to know how to keep a woman who is head over heels in love with you, because she’s already head over heels. You could even make a lot of mistakes—you could be a little needy, a little insecure, a little lacking in confidence—and she’ll still like you and probably stay with you. You’d have to mess up a lot to put her off, which is possible if you make enough mistakes. But it takes a lot to shake her off you. Think of her as a koala clinging to you—it would take a while to shake her off.

How to Turn a Woman on the Fence into One Who’s Head Over Heels

One of the first things you need to know about how these women fall in love is that it takes time. When I say time, it doesn’t take a long time—it just takes a few weeks of dating and courting her, more than with the woman who’s instantly liking you. If a woman is instantly liking you, it’s instant; you don’t have to wait. But for a woman who’s on the fence, give her about four to six weeks (not very long, about a month and a half) of consistently dating her once a week. If you see her four, five, or six times—go on five or six dates—by the end of the sixth date, she should be falling in love with you and feeling more comfortable around you.

Women who are on the fence about you have their guard up for whatever reason. They like you, but not enough to fall in love straight away. Or it could be other blockages, like-

• She’s shy and needs more time to warm up to you.
• She’s had trouble in the past with men, so her guard is up from bad experiences or past boyfriends.
• Or simply, she’s not 100% into you yet.

This is the crucial point: If her guard is up, there is no space yet in her heart or brain to fall in love with you. She can’t relax into those feelings of love, romantic energy, or attraction. That’s why you give her time. If her guard is up and you’re trying to force things—trying to get a relationship too soon, bombarding her with messages, coming on too strong—her guard will go up even more. She’ll put even more barriers between you and her.

If her guard is up and it’s taking her a while to fall in love, it’s because there’s no space yet for her feelings to grow. No amount of rushing the process will make her guard go down. You need to be really relaxed, cool, and chill. Just allow her to be who she is right now and give her time for her guard to shrink. When that guard is down, there will be space for her to feel love for you. A woman can’t be on her guard about you and be in love with you at the same time—it’s just not how it works.

How to Get Her Guard Down

How do you make her feel more comfortable around you so she can feel those loving, romantic emotions? Here’s how-

• Get her to laugh.
  Be your funny and goofy self—be silly and have a great time. This gives her the opportunity to do the same. It lets her guard down, showing her she can relax, be at ease, let her hair down, and have fun because you’re facilitating fun emotions, laughs, giggles, and silliness. If you can do that, her guard will come down, and feelings of love can start to blossom.
• Bond over shared experiences.
  Create rapport by finding common ground. It could be that you went to the same school, had the same teachers, grew up in the same place, went to the same holiday spots, or have similar hobbies. Talk about those. People relax around someone with shared experiences because they think, “Oh, you’re like me—we’re the same.” That’s how you become open and relaxed, like making a new best friend instantly. In a romantic context, with added attraction, it’s much easier for her to fall in love because she can let her guard down without worrying about what you’ll think of her.
• Don’t smother her—give her space.
  When dating a woman who’s on the fence, don’t be always in her DMs. Don’t constantly worry if she still likes you or check in to see if she’s into you—it’s weak and needy. I see guys (and women) doing this: they panic and feel like they have to message or ask, “What are we? Do you like me?” Instead, remain strong and calm. Give her space to think and wonder about you. Be super lazy with texting—just message her once or twice a week to ask her out on a date. After a date, if you don’t hear from her first, leave it four or five days before asking her out again. If she reaches out, great—arrange the date then. Show her you’re calm, not rushing, relaxed, and chill. This gives her space to open up and feel relaxed. If you rush, her guard goes up more because she senses you’re trying to make things happen faster than she’s ready.

As you can see, it requires a little more effort and thought, which is why I think it’s always best to date women who instantly like you—it’s very easy. But it is possible to turn a woman on the fence into one who really likes you.

Thank you so much for reading my blog. Goodbye.